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30 Days of Healing Presents: How to Stop Needing External Validation

30 Days of Healing Presents: How to Stop Needing External Validation  New Video Blog! 

30 Days of Healing: Rejection, Patience, and Confidence

30 Days of healing

Hi, I don't blog here anymore. I have started a new blog here focused on healing and self-love, I promise it's not as schmaltzy as it sounds! : http://30daysofhealing.tumblr.com Start your own 30 days of healing and join me! xoxo Jessie Minden

This love candle isn't working....

I'm a free bitch baby  When I lit this love candle my fr iend gave me , my intentions were certainly not to bring about a blast from my romantic past. Because fuck my romantic past! I’m not tryin to hear any of that noise anymore. The truth is I have been pretty insecure in all my relationships so none of them led to me being very happy. I am attracted to narcissists. According to psychological studies, “highly sensitive people” (HSP) as we are known tend to be that way: “HSPs can feel such intense love and compassion for people that we can believe our love can heal others. And often other people are so amazed and relieved by receiving this much love and understanding, they respond with enormous amounts of gratitude and often flattery. Sensitive people respond to this praise by feeling good about ourselves and feeling needed and so we give more. But as this pattern continues, we end up giving until we’ve got nothing left and getting nothing in return, under...